Things she does 1. School for the boys 1. Planning 2. Daily work to keep them going 2. Decorating the home 3. Grocery shopping 4. Garden planning and planting 5. Decorative flower planting 6. Daily disciplining the boys 7. Social scheduling, initiative 8. Cooking several nights a week 9. Boys' baths 10. Clothes shopping for the boys (and me sometimes!) 11. Choosing Sunday clothes for the boys 12. Shopping for one-off needed items like ethan's school desk